Let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.
There is no better way to show someone you love them than to show them in action by trusting and by giving them your all in every way. A lot of what love is involves showing trust in someone else’s dedication of loving you. When you are committed to someone who says that they are committed to loving you the same, you will earn more trust by showing them that they have earned your trust and vice-versa.
We also have to be willing to show our love in the best ways possible. It is very easy to just utter the words “I Love You” over and over again, but it is much more challenging and also much more rewarding to show them just how much you love them. Not only will they feel your love more, but you will also realize how much it really takes to love someone with all of you, and you will feel abundantly more rewarded for loving someone with all of your heart!
If you treat me as a friend and trust me, you may find that I justify your trust.
When someone who considers you a friend gives you trust, and you accept this friendship as one you will protect, it is your ultimate duty to keep this sacred by never breaking the trust of a friend. Honesty isn’t always the easiest policy to act on, but it in the end will always be the best policy to put in to use in almost any friendship.
Being a friend is about many things, but at the root of a friendship is the honesty and trustworthiness that is the glue to any good friendship. Being a loyal and trustworthy friend is being honest even when you don’t want to. There are times that being a real friend requires that you must tell a friend when they are wrong, and that they are going in the wrong direction even if they feel they are going in the right direction.
A Little Motivation: Pain doesn’t tell you when you ought to stop. Pain is the little voice in your head that tries to hold you back because it knows if you continue, you will change. Don’t let it stop you from being who you can be. Exhaustion tells you when you ought to stop. You only reach your limit when you can go no further.
During our lives we will see a lot of pain, and we will see a lot of struggle during our times of growth, and times of change. I’m not saying that we should make an effort to enjoy the pain that we are or will go through, but we should always make an effort to go through it. The pain that we do experience, will be an experience that we will most likely remember for the rest of our lives, and it can be used to fuel the adventures you will take upon further in your life. With no pain, there will be limited to no amounts of gain.
When there are no gains in life, life becomes in many ways, pointless. Going through pain and struggle, is a lot of what makes life beautiful. Remember that the pain you experience is there to help you change, and there to make you better, dont let it stop you from being who you can be!
Your journey has molded you for your greater good, and it was exactly what it needed to be. Don’t think that you’ve lost time. It took each and every situation you have encountered to bring you to the now. And now is right on time.
You are a product of your journey thus far. Even though many of us would like to forget about some of the things that we have endured in the past, and some of the mistakes that we have committed, we have to believe that everything that we have been through, is a part of who we are today. Every situation you have encountered has helped to form who you are in this moment, and the only way that you can change who you are now, is to work on yourself as each day comes.
The mistakes you’ve made, and the challenges you have overcome are all a part of where you are in the present, but are not at all going to stop you from being who you want to be in the future. Don’t be ashamed of your past, but don’t celebrate it too much either. Keep a humble, diligent attitude filled with love, peace and a desire to make each day the best you possibly may for a better tomorrow!
There is a wonderful mythical law of nature that the three things we crave most in life: happiness, freedom, and peace of mind, are always attained by giving them to someone else.
One of the hardest things to do in life is to give away what you have a lack of. This law is an unwritten and pretty much unpopular law with the way that society works today, but it is truly a law that works. If you find yourself lacking in joy, and lacking in happiness, do your best to make someone else happy. Help someone do something that they would have otherwise never done without your help, smile and be kind to someone who is being rude to you, and try your best to bless others in any other way that you can think of.
If you find yourself lacking peace of mind, help to comfort someone else that you know you can comfort. If you find yourself lacking in freedom, help to give freedom to someone else, be encouraging, and show people the love you have inside of you. Doing these things are good ways to quench your own appetite for happiness, freedom, and peace of mind in your own life.
It’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.
If we are never willing to spend any time alone, then we aren’t willing to get an accurate representation of who we are on a regular basis. To make it in this life we have to be willing to reflect upon our days and we have to be willing to decide with ourselves what moves we will make next. Sure it is very helpful to have people around who do have your best interests in mind, but if we don’t ever really know what we want, there is no possible way to move forward in the life in the direction we want to, if we don’t even know what direction we want to move in.
Spending time alone is healthy, so make sure you give yourself time each day to reflect and to plan for what is to come next in your life. If you aren’t willing to spend time alone then you will never be able to define yourself, you will be defined by someone else instead.
If youre reading this congratulations, youre alive, if thats not something to smile about, then I dont know what is.
In our lives, there are times when we are apt to get and maintain high amounts of activity and stress. Many of us get so busy that we forget to remember and celebrate, on occasion what life is really about. If you are reading this, you are alive. This isn’t something to be taken for granted, because we are not always guaranteed new life as each day passes.
Take time out every once in a while and reflect upon your life. Sure, we should work hard, but we have to remember that we work hard so that we can help to bless the people that we care about, not for ourselves.
Be there for the people that you love. Take time out for the birthday parties, the weddings, the bar-mitzvah’s, dinner parties, and cookouts with the people that you love, and who help you to feel alive. You only have one life to live, so be an example of love, strength and peace by the time it is over. Don’t chase a dream and forget about the people who help your heart continue to beat.
It takes a minute to like someone, an hour to love someone, but a lifetime to forget someone.
Trying to forget someone that you had a lot of love for in the past is something that is extremely difficult to do. Though some find it an easier task than others, the memories you make in your past are memories that are made for a reason, and are memories that will more than likely be with you until something inside of your head doesn’t allow for you to remember them anymore.
When we are young we tend to believe that just because it only takes a minute to be attracted someone, and a short time to love someone, that it will only take the same amount of time to not have these same feelings for them, and this just is not always true. The love and admiration that we have for someone is just something that will stay with us until we are truly ready to let go, and even sometimes when we truly let go, it is easy to find yourself thinking about the great memories of a past love, so don’t. Remember the good, and remember the bad, remember why you aren’t with this person now, and use this to make your present and future relationships even better!